I read your post about the ex. Ok, here are some reasons why you should not feel like a withered old maid.
1.) You are only 30. So young, so much to look forward to.
2.) Jayla Rae is the most fucking retarded name EVER. It sounds like something Britney Spears or an unwed teen mother would name her kid. They probably got it from a soap opera.
3.) You were not ripped a new vag by a human shooting out of it. This is not something to be taken lightly.
4.) You are embarking on so many fabulous adventures and have already made a ton of great new friends since moving to NC.
You are doing great and are fantastic. Seriously. Now enjoy your drink!
One thing I love about being single: having a group of witty, supportive friends who will hold back your hair when you are puking and will send hysterical emails to cheer you up when you are wallowing upon hearing your ex-husband remarried and spawned. Thanks, CKD!